For my part, men older than me made me discover sex between guys and gave me a lot of pleasure. (At the time I didn't have pubic hair yet, just a light down and a small virgin hole)👼
The guy who got my cherry was in his 40's. But I was in my 50's. He was patient, considerate, and respectful.. He was rather thick and warned me beforehand that it would hurt when he did what had to be done. He was a bit surprised that I reacted the same as much younger guys he had initiated.