Bluebear41

نبذة عني: 18+ NSFW Hi ALL – I hope everyone is doing well or as well as can be. My name is Blair thanks very much for stopping by to check out my xHamster profile – I appreciate it. If you are on this site you are like all the others – kinky, horned up and looking to have some fun and get off. Its 2024 – no shame in that. I am a masc Bear but Gay sub. I am a bottom and a cock whore and cum dump. Love to play with other Men and hook up. So, I am NOT looking for any of the following: cam2cam/c2c LTR (other than friendship) Scams & Phishing Findom & Tributes Cryptocurrency Advice Invites to 'other' dating sites I am a fairly well read guy with an above average IQ that enjoys the simple things when it comes to sexual fantasy. I am happy to chat openly with both men and women. It doesn't have to be a sexually charged conversation – life is complicated and there are millions of other things to chat about and enjoy. I enjoy music, good books, movies, history, science, documentaries, World news/events and fun games (both video games but also TTRPG and RPG games) – I've been known to be a bit of a geek and hobby collector as well. I think I might have mentioned earlier that I live with a slight disability which limits my functionality. I have had far too many health issues in the last few years. I am plagued daily by things like chronic pain, positional tolerances and nerve damage among other things that have of course caused numerous issues – but unless I told you – you may not know or even suspect. My nerve damage compounded with age and diabetes has led to 'ED' (erectile dysfunction) which is a tough thing for a man to deal with. I struggle with it a lot. Makes you feel worthless and it is a frustrating thing to add to the list of health problems that I deal with. But at the end of the day there are worse things and when I have a clear head I can rationalize that a bit more. Like most things in life – we hide our pain as best we can. There are times it controls me much more then I control it. More than I would care to admit. As I said there are worse things – or it can always be worse. I like to throw in that caveat to add some perspective. Still – these issues bother me and are part of my daily grind. I've been trying to focus on some good daily practices lately – reading, writing, eating better, playing the piano and getting in a light workout and enjoying a walk or bike ride. Would certainly be nice and even therapeutic to wrap my lips around a sweet piece of man meat and get fed a few loads every now and then! Feel free to reach out if you would like. Otherwise I wish each of you the very best! Blair September 2024 "To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson